The Five Love Languages
At SpoilHer.com we know that women love to be spoiled. We also know that men love to make their women happy. They just don’t know how to sometimes. Do you men ever feel like no matter what you do, it’s never right? The truth is, although you have the best intentions, you may in fact be doing everything wrong. In his book The Five Love Languages, Dr. Gary Chapman proposes that there are five different ways to show love. More importantly your girl only responds to one of these languages. The good news is it’s easy to find out what her language is. When she takes a short test on www.fivelovelanguages.com you will find that she responds most dominantly to one of these 5 love languages:
Physical Touch - she feels love through loving touches.
Acts of Service – she feels loves when others help her or serve her.
Words of Affirmation - she feels love through verbal approval or positive affirmations.
Quality Time - she feels love when others spend time with her.
Gifts - she feels love when others give her thoughtful things.
You may want to take the test also and compare results. The test is not fool proof, but it will get you started in the direction of successfully spoiling her. Test her primary love language for a week and see what kind of response you get. You may be surprised at how easy it is to spoil her! It is possible to have two love languages, so you may want to experience with her second highest language also.
For more information on love languages, or ideas on how to speak her love language, I suggest picking up a copy of the book, The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. With over 4 million copies sold, this book delivers results. This gift of speaking her love language is one that keeps on giving, because everyone knows that when your woman is happy, so are you!
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