Romantic Gestures, Date Ideas, Unique Gifts, Relationship Tips: Spoil Her Blog

Intimacy is a close, affectionate, loving personal relationship with another person.  Intimacy reaches certain levels through two main avenues, the physical and emotional.  In a romantic relationship it is extremely important to grow intimate both emotionally and physically.  We’ve compiled a brief list of ways to have more intimate dating.  For the best intimacy results with your loved one, use these ideas to measure your current intimacy levels and see how you can grow more intimate.

Physical intimacy usually grows the fastest.  You meet, sparks fly and you have no problem getting physical.  Physical intimacy is shown through touch and closeness.  People need physical touch, it is one of the easiest way to show and respond to love.  Physical intimacy can grow through:

-hugging
-holding hands
-kissing
-snuggling
-massaging
-dancing
-bathing together
-making love

Emotional intimacy is achieved through talking about thoughts, feelings and emotions.  You get to know who the person really is as you become emotionally intimate.  During dates ask questions about their past experiences, present desires, and future plans.  Other good questions to grow in emotional intimacy include:

-What are you most passionate about?
-What are your favorite things to do and why?
-What would you do if you didn’t have to work?
-Where have you, and would you like to, travel?
-Tell me about your family and what it was like for you growing up?
-What would you do if you won a million dollars?

Think of 20 questions to ask each other and alternate asking and answering.  There are also conversation question games you can get.  Go on a walk, to a coffee shop or out to eat and learn more about each other.  Grow more emotionally intimate, then take some time to enjoy the physical too.  For best intimate dating results maintain a healthy balance.