Romantic Gestures, Date Ideas, Unique Gifts, Relationship Tips: Spoil Her Blog

So you’re in trouble. It’s just a matter of time before every relationship hits a bump in the road. Generally a simple mis-understanding gets blown out of proportion. Whether you knowingly caused grounds for a break-up or walked into a hidden land mine, you need to make a plan on how to proceed. The following are five different ways to win her back and make your relationship stronger.

Apologize
Whatever you did (or didn’t do), you need to apologize. Even thought you may not have hurt her intentionally, you did. Tell her that you did not realize that your actions would make her so upset. Had you known, you would never have acted that way. Find out how you can work through it and what you can do anything to make her feel better. If you are a repeat offender, you need to ask yourself why you keep making the same mistake over and over.

Understand
Take her out and treat her to her favorite type of food. Talking in a neutral location will help you talk through things more civilly. Picking a public place will help you both keep your cool. Talk about what went wrong, how she feels, and what you can do to fix it. Girls generally get angry because they are hurt. Even if you didn’t mean to hurt her, find out what you did, understand why it hurt her, and ask her how you can fix things.

Reasons
For yourself first and then for her, write up all the reasons you love her and want to be with her. Give her your list and let her know you are giving her some time and space to think. Tell her you’re sorry and you want to work things out whenever she is ready. She may need time to be mad, cool down, and then think rationally. In the mean time, she will have your list. She may be ready to work things out sooner than you think…

Redeem Yourself
Do something wonderful. Girls love to be romanced and chased after. If you love her, go all out to make things right. Kidnap her for a super size date weekend. Shower her with gifts and affection, Spoil Her. You messed up, admit it and make it up to her.

Recruit
Ask for help from friends and family. They may have insights and good ideas. They may also help you devise a way to win her back. Whether it’s sneaking flowers and chocolates in her room, or helping plan a way back into her heart, it always helps to have her friends and family working with you (not against you).

Remember, if it doesn’t kill you, it makes you stronger. Working through issues is part of every relationship. Sometimes the road to recovery is slow and unsteady, but if you come out of it together you can lean on each other. Good luck and remember to Spoil Her.