1. Photos

Look through old photos, pictures or albums to remember your love and the fun times during your relationship. You can take a trip down memory lane. Make it interesting by doing something from one of the photos or going back to the place it was taken.

2. Cheerlead

Be their personal cheerleader. Notice, encourage, applaud and celebrate them. Share in each others goals and positive qualities. Help them achieve their goal, strive to be better, and make their dreams come true.

3. Quality Time

Time is the one thing that you cannot buy. Time is valuable and precious, and it may be what she desires most. Quality time is one of the best romantic gestures. When was the last time you spent time alone together. One of the best gifts for her is simply time alone with you. Make time to catch up, communicate and enjoy each other.

4. Take a Walk

Leave your cell phones, beepers, pagers etc. at home! Walking together gets you both away from distractions so you can focus on each other. It can be easier to open up and talk during an activity, versus staring at each other during a meal. Read the rest of this entry »

Kiss the Forgotten Places
Parts of the body that are frequently touched start becoming less sensitive. Areas like the inside of the wrist, stomach, ears, etc, are more likely to respond to light touches. Explore her body and find the forgotten areas and see how they respond to your light kisses.

Whisper in Her Ear.
Lean in close and whisper softly. Share a secret meant just for the two of you. Whisper sweet nothings or erotic suggestions. She will love your touch and and the sweet sensations.

Pick-Up a Sensual Game
Have some fun with it. There are many couples games specifically made for fun lovin. Slow things down, have some fun, and enjoy the sensations.
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Compliment Her
Satisfy her by increasing her physical confidence. In a day and age where sex sells, we are bombarded by amazing looking women on TV, in magazines, and on the internet. With such amazing competition, women can feel slightly inadequate. Let her know the things you love about her. Be sincere, she knows she is not perfect, but she wants to know that you are attracted to her.  Strip chocolate or poker can be a great way to admire each other!
Make it Sexy
Satisfy her psychologically by boosting her confidence and making her feel sexy. Keep your relationship fresh by flirting. She likes to feel sexy. She wants to be desired and chased. Give a sly smile and wink. Show her that she still does it for you. Whisper in her ear the ways she turns you on. Build her sexiness confidence, then suggest some actions that you find especially sexy… Read the rest of this entry »

Intimacy is a close, affectionate, loving personal relationship with another person.  Intimacy reaches certain levels through two main avenues, the physical and emotional.  In a romantic relationship it is extremely important to grow intimate both emotionally and physically.  We’ve compiled a brief list of ways to have more intimate dating.  For the best intimacy results with your loved one, use these ideas to measure your current intimacy levels and see how you can grow more intimate.

Physical intimacy usually grows the fastest.  You meet, sparks fly and you have no problem getting physical.  Physical intimacy is shown through touch and closeness.  People need physical touch, it is one of the easiest way to show and respond to love.  Physical intimacy can grow through:
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So you’re in trouble. It’s just a matter of time before every relationship hits a bump in the road. Generally a simple mis-understanding gets blown out of proportion. Whether you knowingly caused grounds for a break-up or walked into a hidden land mine, you need to make a plan on how to proceed. The following are five different ways to win her back and make your relationship stronger.

Apologize
Whatever you did (or didn’t do), you need to apologize. Even thought you may not have hurt her intentionally, you did. Tell her that you did not realize that your actions would make her so upset. Had you known, you would never have acted that way. Find out how you can work through it and what you can do anything to make her feel better. If you are a repeat offender, you need to ask yourself why you keep making the same mistake over and over.

Understand
Take her out and treat her to her favorite type of food. Talking in a neutral location will help you talk through things more civilly. Picking a public place will help you both keep your cool. Talk about what went wrong, how she feels, and what you can do to fix it. Girls generally get angry because they are hurt. Even if you didn’t mean to hurt her, find out what you did, understand why it hurt her, and ask her how you can fix things. Read the rest of this entry »

Men and women experience intimacy through different intimate encounters. It is important to take a look at the difference in how men and women enjoy intimacy. Once you know what your partner is looking for in your relationship and how they experience intimacy, you will be able to successfully create intimate encounters with them.

Men
In general men want sex, food and fun. For men sexual acts are part of their basic needs and how they create intimate encounters. We all know that men are visually stimulated. They feel intimate when they can get physically close. Men can become turned on very quickly, while women like much more foreplay.

Food is another part of a man’s basic needs. Most men love to be taken care of and do not want to bother with making a meal after a long day. If a man is well fed and loved on, he feels taken care of and these intimate encounters show that she knows his needs. The old joke goes, to meet a man’s romantic needs, meet him at the door holding dinner and naked.

Finally, is fun. Men have big days working, paying bills, and taking care of business. At the end of their day they want to leave all their troubles behind and have a fun and peaceful night, preferably with his lady. He does not want to hear ranting and raving and venting. Women need to find a way to release their frustrations so when he comes home they can have a fun night together. Read the rest of this entry »

Most people would say that they are interested in increasing the intimacy in their relationships. Intimate relationships thrive with the right kind of communication. It is what you say and what you do that make the difference in deepening intimacy. The following tips are tools to go beyond the norm and build a more intimate relationship.

Needs
You will make it a lot easier for your lover if you communicate your needs. They cannot read your mind. So let them know. Start by asking if you are meeting all their needs. This will give them a chance to share with you. Listen carefully and make mental notes. Do not get defensive, take the information, think through it, and make a plan to meet your lovers needs. The conversation should then easily transition into a focus on your needs.

Praise
When your lover does something that you really enjoyed or appreciated, let them know! Celebrate the small things as well as the large things. Everyone likes their efforts to be noticed and appreciated. From taking out the garbage, to providing sensual pleasure, all positive acts can and should be noted and praised!

Honest Feedback
Enjoy the things that you do for each other. Seek to grow together as you give each other honest feedback. As discussed in the Needs section, a great way to approach this sensitive subject is to ask your partner for their feedback first. Asking “What can I do to be better?” sets the tone for a open conversation. Never accuse or raise your voice. Speak the truth in loving ways and in a safe, trusting context. Read the rest of this entry »

Emotional intimacy is built through love and trust. Love draws you closer and creates an intimate bond that your lover shares with you alone. This creates a special trust. Emotional intimacy is lost when one person in the relationship is hurt by another. The broken parts of a relationship can be fixed and make your emotional intimacy deeper. These tips will help you on your way to understand the situation, make a sincere apology, and mend the broken pieces.

Why?
In a relationship, neither partner sets out to hurt or betray the other. However unintentional it may have been, we have all done just that at some point in our relationships. It is important to work through these situations. When your sweetheart gets upset and hurt, it is important to find out why. Does it stem from a childhood experience, previous relationship, their personality etc. Explain that you can see that they are upset. Express that you did not mean to hurt them. Ask them to explain what they are feeling and why.

Say It!
Once you find out the root of the issue and how you triggered the hurt, it is time to take the next step. Say that you are sorry….and mean it. A sincere apology goes a long way. An apology does not always mean that you are saying you were wrong and they are right. An apology means, I understand that my actions hurt you. Now that I know and understand, I will be more conscious of your emotions and try not to hurt you again. Read the rest of this entry »

Intimacy is an important component of a healthy relationship. Although sexual intimacy is fairly easy to achieve, emotional intimacy can be a bit harder to establish. Emotional intimacy is important for both people in a relationship. It allows them to know each other deeper, understand feelings and look into the soul of the other. There are many ways you can achieve deeper emotional intimacy. The following list elaborates on several ways to start increasing the emotional intimacy in your relationship.

To Thy Self Be True
Do not try to be someone else. There is no way to be intimate, unless she gets to know the real you. If she does not like you for who you are, she is not right for you. Let the real you shine through, (the real you on your best behavior). You can start letting it all hang out once you get to know each other a little better.

Be Open
Talk to each other about the things that matter most to you. Share about your past memories and experiences, current feelings, and future dreams and aspirations. Learning about each other increases understanding and deepens love and intimacy. Read the rest of this entry »