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10 Tips to Attracting Women

May 6th, 2008

There are many factors and variables that are considered when studying what attracts women. Certainly there is no formula for attracting women, but there are some commonalities in features that most women are drawn to. The following list is compiled from our observations, studies and experiences. These free tips to attracting women will help you evaluate your game and help you come up with some new plays.

Be Yourself
That said, be the best version of yourself. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, pinpoint yours and strategize on how to use them. Maximize your strengths and leverage your weaknesses. If you are not sure ask friends and family. They are sure to give you an honest answer. You want to attract a girl that will compliment you and be drawn to you.

Confidence
Knowing is half the battle. Armed with your strength and weakness strategy you can be confident in who you are and what you have to offer. Women love a man that is confident and self assured. You are a great guy and have many qualities to share and be proud of. She will take notice of your confident air. (Notice we said confident not arrogant)

Be Honest
You have been honest with yourself, and make sure to be honest with her. This does not mean tell her your life story, or that you just want some action tonight. Do not tell too much and do not make things up. For instance, she most likely will not believe that you own a helicopter. But she does want to know the real you. Share your career, hobbies and some interesting facts about yourself. Your sharing should give her the opportunity to open up to you. Hopefully you will find some overlapping interests.

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10 Surefire Ways to Satisfy Her

April 19th, 2008

Compliment Her
Satisfy her by increasing her physical confidence. In a day and age where sex sells, we are bombarded by amazing looking women on TV, in magazines, and on the internet. With such amazing competition, women can feel slightly inadequate. Let her know the things you love about her. Be sincere, she knows she is not perfect, but she wants to know that you are attracted to her.  Strip chocolate or poker can be a great way to admire each other!
Make it Sexy
Satisfy her psychologically by boosting her confidence and making her feel sexy. Keep your relationship fresh by flirting. She likes to feel sexy. She wants to be desired and chased. Give a sly smile and wink. Show her that she still does it for you. Whisper in her ear the ways she turns you on. Build her sexiness confidence, then suggest some actions that you find especially sexy… Read the rest of this entry »

Intimate Dating

April 17th, 2008

Intimacy is a close, affectionate, loving personal relationship with another person.  Intimacy reaches certain levels through two main avenues, the physical and emotional.  In a romantic relationship it is extremely important to grow intimate both emotionally and physically.  We’ve compiled a brief list of ways to have more intimate dating.  For the best intimacy results with your loved one, use these ideas to measure your current intimacy levels and see how you can grow more intimate.

Physical intimacy usually grows the fastest.  You meet, sparks fly and you have no problem getting physical.  Physical intimacy is shown through touch and closeness.  People need physical touch, it is one of the easiest way to show and respond to love.  Physical intimacy can grow through:
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Intimate Dating: Intimacy in Public

April 12th, 2008

Intimacy is a close, affectionate, loving, personal relationship with another person. It is easy to be intimate when you are alone together. However, appropriate intimate dating in public proves to be a little trickier. These tips suggest subtle ways to increase intimacy with her, in public.

Intimate Dating Tip #1
Whisper a Secret

Whispering draws you closer to each other. Whether you whisper sweet nothings or let her know you are ready to leave, whispering allows you to share something only between the two of you.

Intimate Dating Tip #2
Choose a Booth

When you are out on the town sit at a booth instead of a table. They are more enclosed and provide a more intimate atmosphere. Try sitting on the same side so you are closer to each other and it is easier to be affectionate.More…

Intimate Dating Tip #3
Wink

If you end up at opposite ends of the room, lock eyes and send a wink. She will know that you were watching her, probably thinking about her, and a wink will make her feel sexy. Double that with a smile for extra effect and she may just melt.

Intimate Dating Tip #4
Footsie

As old as the ages, footsie is another way to express intimacy in public. Footsie generally involves shoe being off and couples touching each other with their feet. This works best if you are sitting across the table from each other. The cardinal rule regarding footsie, make sure you are touching your date’s feet and not someone else’s.

Intimate Dating Tip #5
Share a Drink or Meal

Just like the good old days when couples shared a shake at the local diner, sharing is a sign of intimacy. Grab two straws for your iced frappuccino and enjoy. Enjoying your selection at the same time could make for some romantic eye locking or Eskimo kisses. I think we all remember what happened in Lady and the Tramp when they shared a bowl of spaghetti…. Spread the romance thick and share with each other.

Intimate Dating Tip #6
Hold Hands

Holding hands indicates that you are together. If you are having a secret romance or are with a large group, hold hands under the table. This small act speaks volumes.

Intimate Dating Tip #7
Feed Each Other

Eating finger foods is sure way to be intimate while dating. Hand feed him one of your cheesy fries, give her a bite of your super nachos. People who are intimate with each other generally share their food and occasionally hand feed it to each other. Be careful though, a gesture as simple as this can get overdone. Make sure you don’t feed each other throughout your whole meal, you may make everyone around you sick.

How To: 5 Ways to Make Up After a Fight

March 26th, 2008

So you’re in trouble. It’s just a matter of time before every relationship hits a bump in the road. Generally a simple mis-understanding gets blown out of proportion. Whether you knowingly caused grounds for a break-up or walked into a hidden land mine, you need to make a plan on how to proceed. The following are five different ways to win her back and make your relationship stronger.

Apologize
Whatever you did (or didn’t do), you need to apologize. Even thought you may not have hurt her intentionally, you did. Tell her that you did not realize that your actions would make her so upset. Had you known, you would never have acted that way. Find out how you can work through it and what you can do anything to make her feel better. If you are a repeat offender, you need to ask yourself why you keep making the same mistake over and over.

Understand
Take her out and treat her to her favorite type of food. Talking in a neutral location will help you talk through things more civilly. Picking a public place will help you both keep your cool. Talk about what went wrong, how she feels, and what you can do to fix it. Girls generally get angry because they are hurt. Even if you didn’t mean to hurt her, find out what you did, understand why it hurt her, and ask her how you can fix things. Read the rest of this entry »

Dating Tips for Men: 10 Character Turn-offs

March 20th, 2008

Let’s face it, dates usually do not go as planned. Generally women go on a date with certain expectations of what we want to do, where we want to go, and most importantly what kind of a man we want. This is where dating tips for men can come in handy. Unfortunately you can’t control very many aspects of your date, but you can charm her with your character. These dating tips for men can help you evaluate what your weaknesses are, so you start working on any character turn-offs that you may have.

Lacking Confidence/ Insecure
Women are drawn to confident men. We want a leader and protector. If you lack confidence or are insecure about yourself, take some time to think about why. While you’re at it, think about all the positive qualities you have. Start building your confidence.

Lacking Goals/ No Ambition
The ultimate goal of dating for a woman is to find her perfect match and marry him. You will not get a second date if you are lazy or lack ambition. She wants a provider, a go getter, a man she can be proud of. Make some goals for yourself. What are you striving to achieve? Where do you want to be in 1, 5, and 10 years? These will make for great conversation on your date. Open up a little and let her know some of the things you are passionate about. Read the rest of this entry »