Romantic Gestures, Date Ideas, Unique Gifts, Relationship Tips: Spoil Her Blog

Men and women experience intimacy through different intimate encounters. It is important to take a look at the difference in how men and women enjoy intimacy. Once you know what your partner is looking for in your relationship and how they experience intimacy, you will be able to successfully create intimate encounters with them.

Men
In general men want sex, food and fun. For men sexual acts are part of their basic needs and how they create intimate encounters. We all know that men are visually stimulated. They feel intimate when they can get physically close. Men can become turned on very quickly, while women like much more foreplay.

Food is another part of a man’s basic needs. Most men love to be taken care of and do not want to bother with making a meal after a long day. If a man is well fed and loved on, he feels taken care of and these intimate encounters show that she knows his needs. The old joke goes, to meet a man’s romantic needs, meet him at the door holding dinner and naked.

Finally, is fun. Men have big days working, paying bills, and taking care of business. At the end of their day they want to leave all their troubles behind and have a fun and peaceful night, preferably with his lady. He does not want to hear ranting and raving and venting. Women need to find a way to release their frustrations so when he comes home they can have a fun night together.

Women
Women feel intimacy in entirely different ways than men. Her intimate encounters occur when is understood, romanced, and loved. Women are much more perceptive by nature, they want a relationship. Sexual encounters are not part of their basic needs. Women want to be understood. They are into sharing feelings and emotions. Women feel intimate when their partner knows them, emotionally not physically.

All women love to be romanced. Love notes, gifts, dates, long walks, cuddling, candle light dinners, and spending special time together are some of the ways women feel romanced, understood and loved. Experiment and see what she responds to most. Small romantic gestures, often go a long way towards making her feel loved.

After romancing her, she will be much more receptive to the loving he wants. It takes a little more time and effort to get a woman in the mood. Use foreplay to give her time to prepare to meet his needs. Drop some spicy verbal hints in the morning or a few days in advance. Use soft, tender touches in the morning and upon arriving home. Unwind together and make a move once her need to be understood has been met.

This list provides the general avenues through which women and men experience intimate encounters. While these are good guidelines, make sure to communicate with your lover about ideal ways to experience intimacy. Ask your partner what things they like. From there you can experiment with ways to increase intimate encounters.